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Rejection And Writers

Rejection Tool Kit For Writers: Your Secret Weapon Against Rejection!

writer rejectionWant to be a professional writer? First things first: Prepare yourself for the many rejection letters that are part of the writing life. Here at Writer’s Relief, we like to remind our clients of our favorite writer mantra: Each rejection brings me closer to publication!

If you’re a new or intermediate writer (heck, even if you’ve hit the Times list), you probably already know that being rejected (again, and again, and again) is hard. But we can help.

Our staff here at Writer’s Relief has compiled this fantastic Free Publishing Tool Kit to help you prepare for and deal with rejection. This is your secret weapon against the writing blues—and we hope you’ll use it!
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TIP: Check out all of our Free Publishing Tool Kits. If you’re a writer, we’ve got a Tool Kit for you!

Starting Out: What Rejections Mean To Your Writing Career

How To Interpret Rejection Letters From Literary Agents And EditorsYour responses may contain “hidden meanings” in what appears to be generic language. Learn how to decipher key phrases.

Famous Author Rejection Letters: True Stories Of Unbelievable RejectionsEven successful authors paid their dues with harsh reactions. You’ll be surprised at what editors said to these beloved writers!

Five Famous Literary Flops (And Why They’re Awesome)Some books that bombed in their early years went on to become regarded as brilliant and important stories! If you’re feeling misunderstood, this is the article for you.

When Should You Give Up Trying To Publish Your Book? Do you know when to quit? Should you ever quit? How many submissions should a writer make before throwing in the towel? We share our thoughts.

Five Ways To Get More Acceptance Letters From Literary Agents And EditorsBe sure you’re not making silly mistakes that are causing you to be rejected!

How To Turn Acceptances Into Rejections In Six Easy StepsYes, you read that right. A humorous look at the best way to get your work rejected. Hint: You probably don’t want to do these things!

10 Tips To Turn Rejections Into AcceptancesAnd yes, you read this one right too! Here’s what NOT to do when you’re sending out your submissions.

Rejection: A Badge Of Honor. Guest blogger Michael Young explains: Don’t just accept rejection, conquer it and move on.

The Creative Writer’s Dilemma: Dealing With Rejection Letters

Raising Your Expectations For Success: Thinking Positive In PublishingYour mind-set matters—and it’s worthwhile to dedicate the same level of attention to your mental health as you give to your cover and query letters.

How To Maintain A Positive Outlook For Your Submission ProcessIt’s okay to be glum sometimes, but here’s how to keep despair from becoming a career-stopper. These simple steps will help you create a better (writing) life!

100 Words of Encouragement For WritersIf you had 100 words to encourage a struggling writer, what would you say? Here are the words our readers wanted to share with writers who have lost hope.

10 Affirmations For Creative Writers—And How To Use ThemWhen the rejection monster sneaks up on you, be ready to blast it to smithereens with these powerful phrases.

Writers: How A Little Patience Goes A Long Way Toward SuccessThis article offers perspective on your professional timeline. Go easy on yourself! Success can take time.

The Eight R’s Of Responding To RejectionWhen you’re feeling down, remember these eight R’s!

Examining the Resilience “R” of Responding to Rejection. Determination and resilience are key to getting to the finish line. Shore up your staying power with this great article!  

Underdog Writers: How To Come Back In The Second Half And Win The GameJust because you might not be the crowd favorite doesn’t mean you won’t go home with the title. Let us remind you why.

Five Signs You May Be Sabotaging Your Writing Career. Is it possible that your rejection letters are a sign of a deeper issues?

True Story: Perseverance Pays Off. A story about one of our clients who overcame rejection to reach her goals.  

The Different Types Of Rejection Letters And What They Mean For WritersRejection letters can be discouraging for writers. But sometimes, they can be just as encouraging as acceptances! Learn about the different types of rejection letters here.

Famous Author Quotes About Rejection From Agents And Editors

“I tell writers to keep reading, reading, reading. Read widely and deeply. And I tell them not to give up even after getting rejection letters. And only write what you love.” —Anita Diamant

“Every rejection is incremental payment on your dues that in some way will be translated back into your work.” —James Lee Burke

“I discovered that rejections are not altogether a bad thing. They teach a writer to rely on his own judgment and to say in his heart of hearts, ‘To hell with you.’” —Saul Bellow

“I think that you have to believe in your destiny; that you will succeed, you will meet a lot of rejection and it is not always a straight path, there will be detours—so enjoy the view.” —Michael York

“I could write an entertaining novel about rejection slips, but I fear it would be overly long.” —Louise Brown

“Was I bitter? Absolutely. Hurt? You bet your sweet ass I was hurt. Who doesn’t feel a part of their heart break at rejection. You ask yourself every question you can think of, what, why, how come, and then your sadness turns to anger. That’s my favorite part. It drives me, feeds me, and makes one hell of a story.” —Jennifer Salaiz

Click here for many more Quotes For Writers About Rejection.

More Resources

Author Ellen Jackson offers her thoughts

A blog that features real rejection letters

A great compilation about rejection

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Closing Notes

This page has been a labor of love to help do-it-yourself authors. We hope you’ve found it helpful as you strive to maintain a positive outlook in the face of difficult odds.

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We wish you all the best as you try to get published. Let us know how we can help!


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